All My Ancestors

27 March 2007

Pull me closer, John Deere

Filed under: Dad, Osborne Family — allmyanc @ 10:12 pm

Earlier in the week I read the Pioneer Woman’s post about her pesky brother in law Tim’s Tractor Love and I thought of my brother who really wasn’t completely happy until he bought his very own John Deere for working on his place at the lake.

If anyone was born to farm, other than our dad, it would be my brother, who, by the way, shares our dad’s name. But making a living somehow took priority so he and his family now run a very successful business from their beautiful place on the lake. It’s taken a lot of work and one of his first purchases was a riding mower–of course it was a John Deere. But even though it was indeed a John Deere, and it had quite a few attachments, it just wasn’t quite big enough to be called a real tractor.

I think it might be genetic. He has a grandson who will sit on that lawn mower for hours and be perfectly happy. And when my brother made him a bed like a John Deere tractor, there was never another problem with going to bed to take a nap or at bedtime. He got his own battery-powered, down-sized version of his very own tractor for Christmas and he loves to drive it, but he does have some concerns that it’s getting dirty.

So you can see that John Deeres hold a special place in our family. My brother hauled John Deere tractors, combines, etc. right after he quit farming–that was almost close enough to farming for him. While he worked for that company, he collected the small model versions. Are you getting the picture? Below is a cover of the John Deere magazine, appropriately named The Furrow–with some of our relatives’ names on the cover–they evidently ran an implement company in a neighboring town. My brother found it among our granddad’s things after he died–wouldn’t you know this would be the thing he would choose to rescue?

This past couple of years, he and his family, with the help of various neighbors, have been working on a house built in 1906, one that probably began its life as a ranch bunkhouse and one that they moved onto some property my niece bought across from her folks, to make a great home for her. I got to see it for the first time this past weekend. They’ve done a great job of making the house modern but retaining the old house charm–hardwood floors and some beadboard walls. But when I left, after it had been raining for 3 days, I started sliding sideways off the curving, sticky, clay road. I managed to get stopped six inches from a tree trunk.

All I could think of to do was to start honking. Then I remembered I had my cell phone, but he was already down the driveway in his pickup. I swear his eyes sort of lit up when I told him I was stuck. He said for me to stay put and he’d be back. About 10 minutes later, he came out with his coveralls on, galoshes and cap (John Deere, of course) and gloves on, moved his pickup and fired up his green and yellow tractor. It’s not a big one, but it’s a Deere.

It was raining too hard to get a good picture. You can see the “slow moving vehicle” triangle reflected in my mirror–and if you look carefully, you can see the pickup to the left. But trust me, the tractor’s there.

I, of course, wasn’t getting out. He was on the ground, under my vehicle, flinging chains this way and that, and finally, giving me instructions:

“Put it in reverse, but don’t gun it. I don’t know if this ‘little fart’ will do it, but we’ll see.”

He knew it would, and he was right. Soon I was on my way home, and he was back in the house, singing the praises of his tractor, no doubt.

What a guy. What a Deere.

3 March 2007

A Family Tradition

Filed under: Oklahoma, Unruh Family — allmyanc @ 6:55 pm

My uncle has brain cancer. We made a trip to Guymon in the Oklahoma panhandle to visit him this weekend–my brother, my niece, my husband and me. It was really kinda fun to spend that much time together–Georgene and I sat in the back of a very large vehicle and knitted and we all talked and laughed and reminisced. We drove out Thursday afternoon and came back Friday.

We are definitely sad that our uncle is dying, but we have a certain amount of respect for him because he is going on his own terms. He smokes and he’s always smoked. He loves smoking–he quit for a while when his wife had lung cancer and he took care of her until her death in 1995. Then he sorta took it up again with a vengeance. Last year when he was diagnosed with lung cancer, he chose to not go through all the rigamarole of chemo and radiation like his wife and his sister, and he “damn sure” didn’t want to end up in a nursing home like his folks, so he’s going out on his own terms. What a guy. He told his doctor he really appreciated the breathing machine the doctor prescribed because it helps him enjoy his cigarettes more.

Anyway, there he was, laying in bed, with one foot sticking out from under the covers. His foot looked just like his dad’s–and I told him that I’d had to teach my husband the secret of sleeping with one foot out from under the covers. He said, “Doesn’t everyone do that?” I said, “Only if they’re in our family.” We took a poll–both of his kids do it, my brother does, his daughter, me, my husband, now that I’ve taught him, I know my mom did, and I know her dad did. We had a laugh. Other families have great and glorious traditions–we just have regulating our sleeping temp with a foot out from under the covers. But we all agreed it’s a valuable skill.

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