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		<title>Fruitcake:  Advent Calendar of Christmas Memories</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Dec 2010 14:50:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[December 14 – Fruitcake – Friend or Foe? Did you like fruitcake? Did your family receive fruitcakes? Have you ever re-gifted fruitcake? Have you ever devised creative uses for fruitcake? This is a repost from 21 Dec 2007–it seemed to fit today’s prompt. I’m looking for a fruitcake to arrive in the mail. Not just [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>December 14 – Fruitcake – Friend or Foe?</strong><br />
Did you like fruitcake? Did your family receive fruitcakes? Have you  ever re-gifted fruitcake? Have you ever devised creative uses for  fruitcake?</p>
<p><em>This is a repost from 21 Dec 2007–it seemed to fit today’s prompt.</em></p>
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<p>I’m looking for a fruitcake to arrive in the mail.</p>
<p>Not just any fruitcake–it has to be one from the <a title="Collin Street" href="http://www.collinstreet.com/" target="_blank">Collin Street Bakery</a> in Corsicana, Texas.</p>
<p>This <a title="fruitcake" href="http://www.collinstreet.com/pages/deluxe_fruitcake" target="_blank">fruitcake</a> has lots of memories for me. To begin with, when I was in band (5th  grade through senior year) in school, we sold these fruitcakes every  year as a fundraiser. As far as I can tell, the sales financed our trip  to <a title="Hemisfair 68" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HemisFair_%2768" target="_blank">Hemisfair</a> in San Antonio my junior year in high school. (Who thought taking 200+  high school kids to San Antonio in the summer on school buses was a good  idea? I remember melting in my wool uniform slacks and our chairs  sinking into the asphalt.) It may have also financed some of our weekly  trips to out of town football games and various contests. I don’t  remember selling them to anyone other than my mother who loved them.</p>
<p>Fast-forward 30 years or so, my husband and I are driving my parents  home from what proved to be my mom’s final visit to M.D. Anderson Cancer  Center in Houston. We sail through Corsicana and Mom starts waxing  eloquent about the fruitcakes. Hubbo turns around and we go back to  Corsicana to buy a fruitcake. Mom, of course, says we shouldn’t and that  just because she thinks one sounds good doesn’t mean that she can eat  it what with all the chemo. But she digs into it and sure enough, a bite  or two satisfies her. Six weeks later, she is gone, but the fruitcake  stays in my freezer for 2 years. When the fog lifts, I finally gather up  the courage to discard it, blue tin and all.</p>
<p>The next year, someone from our church sends us one in the mail. My  sons start their “ewwwww, fruitcake” spiel, but I am comforted by the  site of the tin and all the pecans and sugary fruit and memories inside.</p>
<p>I’m still waiting.</p>
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		<title>. . . and one more [WorldCat] thing</title>
		<link>http://allmyancestors.com/blog/2010/02/01/and-one-more-worldcat-thing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 01:09:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>allmyanc</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you used the OAISTER part of WorldCat?  There was a Facebook posting about it after I wrote my original post for this week. This is the answer to all of us who have wished for a catalog of materials that have been digitized and put online&#8211;&#8220;books and articles, audio and video files, photos, data [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you used the <a href="http://oaister.worldcat.org/" target="_blank">OAISTER</a> part of WorldCat?  There was a Facebook posting about it after I wrote my original post for this week.</p>
<p>This is the answer to all of us who have wished for a catalog of materials that have been digitized and put online&#8211;<em>&#8220;books and articles, audio and video files, photos, data sets, theses and research papers&#8221;</em> to quote the <a href="http://worldcat.org/blogs/mt-search.cgi?search=oaister&amp;IncludeBlogs=1" target="_blank">WorldCat blog.</a></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve used it when it was housed at the University of Michigan, but I played with it some more and I was amazed at the breadth of what was available, including interviews and photos.</p>
<p>Have fun!</p>
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		<title>The Researcher&#8217;s Toolbox:  WorldCat</title>
		<link>http://allmyancestors.com/blog/2010/01/30/the-researchers-toolbox-worldcat/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 17:30:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Written for  52 Weeks To Better Genealogy &#8211; Challenge #5 I love WorldCat. I downloaded the app onto my iPhone, thinking, as a librarian, I should have it there, but not imagining that I would ever use it.  Not so.  I have used it multiple times when I&#8217;ve found myself away from my computer and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Written for  <strong>52 Weeks To Better Genealogy &#8211; Challenge #5</strong></p>
<p>I love <a href="http://www.worldcat.org/" target="_blank">WorldCat</a>.</p>
<p>I downloaded the app onto my iPhone, thinking, as a librarian, I should have it there, but not imagining that I would ever use it.  Not so.  I have used it multiple times when I&#8217;ve found myself away from my computer and wondering about the availability of a title.</p>
<p>WorldCat is an uber catalog.  When folks at the library where I work ask me about a title we don&#8217;t have within our 4 walls, I nearly always offer to do a lookup for them in WorldCat.  Most of them don&#8217;t know what WorldCat is, so it&#8217;s an opportunity to shed some light as well.  I tell them it&#8217;s one way to determine if that particular title is available in our area&#8211;we are privileged to have a wonderful public library system in our area and also to have the holdings of 4-5 college and university libraries available to us.  So sometimes it&#8217;s just a matter of visiting an area library.  Other times, I can tell them how to request the item through interlibrary loan at their public library.</p>
<p>This caveat regarding interlibrary loan is also always given&#8211;many libraries will not loan their genealogical titles.  BUT, customers can request photocopies of the table of contents or the index or perhaps the entries for a certain person.  Most libraries are willing to do this copying of a specific topic when they are not willing for their books to go out the door.</p>
<p>And of course, books are not the only format of information cataloged in WorldCat.  It&#8217;s possible to search for serials or microfilm or cds or musical scores or maps and even internet links.</p>
<p>One of the ways I used WorldCat is to find the actual title of a work.  Since I work in a historical society library, the library where folks come to do their genealogical research, I use it a lot to help customers who start by saying something like, &#8220;My mother&#8217;s cousin&#8217;s uncle&#8217;s grandmother wrote a book about our family.  It&#8217;s blue.  Do you have it?&#8221;</p>
<p>Using WorldCat, I can determine what titles have been published about that given family.  I ask about the family name&#8211;the customer doesn&#8217;t have to know the name of the author or the title of the book.  Then WorldCat can be searched using &#8220;Mitchell Family&#8221; as a subject search, and I can see what books have been published about the Mitchell family and also what libraries hold those titles.  For such a common name, I might also throw in a keyword search as well, such as including the name of the state where they lived or perhaps one of the collateral lines.</p>
<p>Knowing that the cover is blue, however, is not all that helpful.  :-)</p>
<p>With <a href="http://wetree.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Amy</a> and others posting about this tool, I encourage you to get acquainted with WorldCat.  I typically access it through my public library&#8217;s website&#8211;if &#8220;my&#8221; library system has the title, WorldCat lets me know that with a highlighted line.  Otherwise, I can look to see how many libraries hold it and where I might find it in my area.</p>
<p>Use it to see what&#8217;s been been published on a topic of interest&#8211;your family names or location where they lived.  You&#8217;ll feel so smart!</p>
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		<title>Madness Monday:  Mitchell Family</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Dec 2009 19:53:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>allmyanc</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve written about my Mitchell quest before. This is a tough search because it&#8217;s a common name, the given names are also common (John, James, Mary, Martha), the family was apparently quite mobile, and most of what I want to know occurred before 1850 so the luxury of the every-name census records are not available.   [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve written about my <a href="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/2009/01/04/did-i-find-my-john-mitchell/" target="_blank">Mitchell quest</a> before.</p>
<p>This is a tough search because it&#8217;s a common name, the given names are also common (John, James, Mary, Martha), the family was apparently quite mobile, and most of what I want to know occurred before 1850 so the luxury of the every-name census records are not available.   Add that this family was often in territory before statehood (e.g., probably Mississippi) and in a state I have not extensively researched, and the result is a family that drives me a little mad.</p>
<p>Plus, I also have to question the sanity of <a href="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/2009/10/10/john-mitchell-and-the-mexican-war/" target="_blank">a man</a> 56 years of age (according to his service record) who joins up to fight in the Mexican War.</p>
<p>So while I&#8217;ve written quite a bit recently about this family, it still fits the <a href="http://www.geneabloggers.com/madness-monday-december-28-2009/" target="_blank">Monday Madness</a> meme for Geneabloggers&#8211;both because they drive me mad and I do think John Mitchell, Sr. might have been a little off his rocker.  <img src='http://allmyancestors.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Here is the latest information I&#8217;ve received on a person named John Mitchell, Jr.  I&#8217;m still not certain that he is the brother of my 4th great-grandfather, Ephraim Miles Mitchell, son of John Mitchell and probably Martha &#8220;Patsy&#8221; McClain.  I&#8217;ve mentioned before that I have a copy of a <a href="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/2009/01/01/more-mitchell-musings/" target="_blank">letter written</a> by John Mitchell from Austin, Texas, as he is awaiting deployment to Mexico.  He mentions his brother &#8220;D. R.,&#8221; and his horse Charley, but no mention of a son in the same unit.</p>
<p>He does enlist on the same day in the same place as John Mitchell, Sr&#8211;20 May 1847 in Rusk County, Texas.</p>
<p>He enlists in the same unit&#8211;1st Texas Mounted Volunteers, Co. I.</p>
<p>Unlike John Sr., he apparently survives the war and he one muster roll card indicates he was mustered out 1 May 1848 by Captain Washington near Vera Cruz, Mexico.</p>
<p>His service record gives no other clues that I can see.  Do you?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/JohnJr1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-1186" title="JohnJr1" src="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/JohnJr1-1024x759.jpg" alt="" width="738" height="546" /></a></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/JohnJr2.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-1187" title="JohnJr2" src="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/JohnJr2-1023x788.jpg" alt="" width="818" height="630" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I posted most of this info in my <a href="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/category/mitchell-family/" target="_self">20 Dec</a> post, but by writing about it again, I guess I think I&#8217;m emphasizing how frustrated I am with these guys.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Through the years I have found pieces of information on this family that all started from my trying to search for info on my mysterious<a href="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/2009/02/22/saturday-night-fun-with-mary-mitchell/" target="_blank"> great-great grandmother</a>, Ephraim&#8217;s daughter Mary.  I knew nothing about her family when I started, so with some perspective, I have learned quite a bit about this mysterious bunch&#8211;I knew her grandchildren but they knew practically nothing about her.  John B. and Mary are a bit of the &#8220;lost generation&#8221; in my family since both Mary and her husband John B. Cooper died young&#8211;he in the Civil War and she shortly thereafter.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Here&#8217;s hoping . . .</p>
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		<title>Advent Calendar: Fruitcake Chronicles</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 16:23:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>allmyanc</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[December 14 &#8211; Fruitcake – Friend or Foe? Did you like fruitcake? Did your family receive fruitcakes? Have you ever re-gifted fruitcake? Have you ever devised creative uses for fruitcake? This is a repost from 21 Dec 2007&#8211;it seemed to fit today&#8217;s prompt. I’m looking for a fruitcake to arrive in the mail. Not just [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #057603;">December 14 &#8211; Fruitcake – Friend or Foe?</span></strong><br />
Did you like fruitcake? Did your family receive fruitcakes? Have you ever re-gifted fruitcake? Have you ever devised creative uses for fruitcake?</p>
<p><em>This is a repost from 21 Dec 2007&#8211;it seemed to fit today&#8217;s prompt.</em></p>
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<p>I’m looking for a fruitcake to arrive in the mail.</p>
<p>Not just any fruitcake–it has to be one from the <a title="Collin Street" href="http://www.collinstreet.com/" target="_blank">Collin Street Bakery</a> in Corsicana, Texas.</p>
<p>This <a title="fruitcake" href="http://www.collinstreet.com/pages/deluxe_fruitcake" target="_blank">fruitcake</a> has lots of memories for me. To begin with, when I was in band (5th grade through senior year) in school, we sold these fruitcakes every year as a fundraiser. As far as I can tell, the sales financed our trip to <a title="Hemisfair 68" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HemisFair_%2768" target="_blank">Hemisfair</a> in San Antonio my junior year in high school. (Who thought taking 200+ high school kids to San Antonio in the summer on school buses was a good idea? I remember melting in my wool uniform slacks and our chairs sinking into the asphalt.) It may have also financed some of our weekly trips to out of town football games and various contests. I don’t remember selling them to anyone other than my mother who loved them.</p>
<p>Fast-forward 30 years or so, my husband and I are driving my parents home from what proved to be my mom’s final visit to M.D. Anderson Cancer Center in Houston. We sail through Corsicana and Mom starts waxing eloquent about the fruitcakes. Hubbo turns around and we go back to Corsicana to buy a fruitcake. Mom, of course, says we shouldn’t and that just because she thinks one sounds good doesn’t mean that she can eat it what with all the chemo. But she digs into it and sure enough, a bite or two satisfies her. Six weeks later, she is gone, but the fruitcake stays in my freezer for 2 years. When the fog lifts, I finally gather up the courage to discard it, blue tin and all.</p>
<p>The next year, someone from our church sends us one in the mail. My sons start their “ewwwww, fruitcake” spiel, but I am comforted by the site of the tin and all the pecans and sugary fruit and memories inside.</p>
<p>I’m still waiting.</p></div>
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		<title>Advent Calendar:  A Christmas Present at Work</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 14:53:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>allmyanc</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[December 9 &#8211; Grab Bag Author’s choice. Please post from a topic that helps you remember Christmases past! I&#8217;m taking license with the prompt for today.  This is a Christmas present for this year rather than bringing up memories of Christmases past. What happened at work yesterday is a large part of the reason I [...]]]></description>
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<em>Author’s choice. Please post from a topic that helps you remember Christmases past!</em></p>
<p>I&#8217;m taking license with the prompt for today.  This is a Christmas present for this year rather than bringing up memories of Christmases past.</p>
<p>What happened at work yesterday is a large part of the reason I do what I do.  [NOTE:  ALL names and places have been changed for privacy.]</p>
<p>A gentleman came into our library with an application for the birth certificate for his wife&#8217;s adopted sister.  He&#8217;d been to the Bureau of Vital Statistics and they&#8217;d told him they couldn&#8217;t help him&#8211;they would not issue him a birth certificate nor would they issue one to his wife for her sister.  They suggested he come to the Historical Society.  We get these customers often&#8211;the state does not have any sort of public record index nor do they provide any sort of access for any vital records from any time period.</p>
<p>I began the reference interview to try to determine what we could do for this man.  We do have newspapers from across the state so sometimes those will provide birth information.  Through the years of being a librarian, a genealogist, and an all-around curious person, I&#8217;ve helped people with these sorts of research problems&#8211;it&#8217;s always a circuitous path with lots of unknowns.  And it usually takes a lot of time and effort.  He said he&#8217;d been working on this for 16 years.</p>
<p>When I started asking questions, he said the family had been very closed-mouth, not unusual  in these situations.  But he thought she might have been adopted by the daughter of a friend of the family&#8211;that was the family story, maybe, if the below-the-surface talk could be believed.  And he knew that person&#8217;s name.  Let&#8217;s call her Roberta.</p>
<p>So we started looking.  We found the family in the 1920 census living in the community he remembered.  The potential adoptive mother was married to Marvin Morgan (name changed)&#8211;our customer didn&#8217;t know she&#8217;d been married.  But he was sure this was the person he&#8217;d heard might be the adoptive mother&#8211;he recognized her parents names as well as hers. The young married couple was living with her parents in the small town our customer knew as their home, and they had no children of their own listed on the census.   So we looked for them in 1930 to see if there was a child listed in the household, but we couldn&#8217;t find them listed&#8211;either the grandparents or the adoptive parents.  The husband had been listed as working in the oil fields, so they could have moved anywhere to find work in that time period&#8211;the depression and Oklahoma&#8217;s Dust Bowl.</p>
<p>We decided to take a look at the SSDI.  Marvin&#8217;s name was common but not exactly as common as, say, Bob Jones.  We found a &#8220;Marvin Morgan&#8221; listed who died in 1975 in Gotham City, Oklahoma, who was the right age and who had received his Social Security card in Oklahoma before 1951.  We thought he was a likely candidate based on that much info, and there were no other candidates with this munch potential.  It was at least an hypothesis to test, a lead to follow.</p>
<p>My colleague trotted back to get the city directories.  Listed in the Gotham City city directory was Mrs.  Robert Morgan, retired.  Was this Roberta or was it someone who was still using a husband&#8217;s name?  We kept looking until we found the year she was no longer listed in the directory.   HOWEVER, we went a step further,  looking up her address in the back of the first directory that she was not listed.</p>
<p>A person by a different name was living at that address, but the phone number had remained the same.</p>
<p>What did this mean?</p>
<p>Using the name listed at the address, we went back to the front of the directory and found the wife&#8217;s name matched the information the customer had for the sister&#8217;s name!  Woo-hoo!</p>
<p>Then, with trepidation, we put her name into the SSDI.  We found a death date for a person who matched  what we knew so far.   Sure enough, she&#8217;d died in September of this year.</p>
<p>We went on and found a death notice that included her funeral date and the funeral home.</p>
<p>It was bittersweet, but rewarding.  He was thrilled and so grateful.</p>
<p>It made my day.  We didn&#8217;t even charge him for the copies we&#8217;d made for him.  In about half an hour, we&#8217;d answered a question this family had sought for years.  The answer usually doesn&#8217;t come that quickly nor that easily.  We were aided by the fact that the sister&#8217;s name had not been changed and that much of the family whisperings turned out to be valid.</p>
<p>It wasn&#8217;t the hoped-for outcome, but it still felt like a  gift to both his family and to my coworker and to me.</p>
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		<title>Advent Calendar:  Christmas Cookies</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 06:25:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[December 8 &#8211; Christmas Cookies Did your family or ancestors make Christmas Cookies? How did you help? Did you have a favorite cookie? My mother didn&#8217;t like to cook and she certainly didn&#8217;t like to bake.  And her mother, my grandmother, was her model.  So home-baked Christmas cookies are not among my memories.  We were [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #057603;">December 8 &#8211; Christmas Cookies</span></strong><br />
<em>Did your family or ancestors make Christmas Cookies? How did you help? Did you have a favorite cookie?</em></p>
<p>My mother didn&#8217;t like to cook and she certainly didn&#8217;t like to bake.  And her mother, my grandmother, was her model.  So home-baked Christmas cookies are not among my memories.  We were more likely to make fudge, particularly after that recipe for using chocolate chips and marshmallow fluff came out&#8211;wasn&#8217;t it called &#8220;<a href="http://www.christmas-cookies.com/recipes/recipe191.fantasy-fudge.html" target="_blank">Fantasy Fudge</a>?&#8221;  My mom did love sweets, but the easier the better.  We had lots of <a href="http://www.pastrywiz.com/dailyrecipes/recipes/392.htm" target="_blank">unbaked cookies</a>, for example&#8211;the &#8220;boil the sugar, milk, cocoa and butter together, add the oatmeal, and drop onto waxed paper&#8221; version.  We didn&#8217;t usually add the peanut butter.</p>
<p>However, I had my great Aunt Lorene to come to the rescue.  Aunt Lorene was my maternal grandfather&#8217;s sister and she treated cooking like an art.  She let me cook with her, teaching me tricks like spraying ice water into the flour and shortening mixture to make a pie crust flaky (my mom&#8217;s approach won out&#8211;I usually buy Pillsbury pie crusts).  For my birthday in 1965, which is just 11 days after Christmas, she gave me this cooky book:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1141" style="border: 2px solid black;" title="cooky cover" src="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/cooky-cover-240x300.jpg" alt="cooky cover" width="240" height="300" /></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve used this book a lot.  The cookie recipes are a bit convoluted, as were recipes from that time.  Just above Aunt Lorene&#8217;s inscription in this book, you can see that it refers to &#8220;teatime.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1142" style="border: 2px solid black;" title="signature" src="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/signature-300x225.jpg" alt="signature" width="300" height="225" /></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Trust me, we didn&#8217;t really do teatime in the Texas panhandle, but the brownie and the butterscotch brownies got lots of use, as you can see from the smudged page that has the brownie recipe on it.  I think one of the things I like best about this recipe is that it uses cocoa rather than unsweetened chocolate.  We were much more likely to have cocoa in the pantry than unsweetened chocolate.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1143" style="border: 2px solid black;" title="Brownie Recipe" src="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Brownie-Recipe-225x300.jpg" alt="Brownie Recipe" width="225" height="300" /></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">To be truthful, I never thought the Christmas cookie offerings in this cookbook looked all that appetizing.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1144" style="border: 2px solid black;" title="christmascookies" src="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/christmascookies-293x300.jpg" alt="christmascookies" width="264" height="270" /></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">With no-bake cookies as my reference point, making cookie dough that had to be chilled and rolled out seemed a little daunting.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">As an adult, however, I have enjoyed making Christmas cookies.  We have family friends who usually have a cookie party a few weeks before Christmas.  It&#8217;s not the usual cookie exchange, but more of a time to get together and see who can make the most outre decorated cookie.  Home-baked cookies are provided, in the usual Christmas shapes, but also some sharks and chickens and other various non-traditional shapes.  Red and green and white icing is provided, but so is purple and yellow and orange.  Are you getting the picture?  It&#8217;s a fun evening and all ages participate and have a great time.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">My oldest son and I have traditionally make the Christmas cookies at our house.  I labor over the choice of the recipe&#8211;you&#8217;d think I&#8217;d make notes on which ones I prefer.  I typically use recipes I find online&#8211;I think the <a href="http://simplyrecipes.com/" target="_blank">Simply Recipes</a> blog has the ones I&#8217;ve used the past couple of years.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Now that my son longer lives here, we still occasionally make and decorate cookies if he is at home for a few days before Christmas.  Making all the colors of icing and using the tubes and tips always takes longer than anticipated, but we get them done.  Then we deliver a plate of 6-8 to our neighbors.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Christmas cookies are especially delicious now that I know how much effort goes into them&#8211;a labor of love that we will probably make again this year.</p>
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		<title>Advent Calendar:  Christmas Cards</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 07:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[December 4 &#8211; Christmas Cards Did your family send cards? Did your family display the ones they received? Do you still send Christmas cards? Do you have any cards from your ancestors? Written for the 2009 Advent Calendar of  Christmas Memories As I recall, we did send Christmas cards.  The one that survives is one [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="COLOR: #057603">December 4 &#8211; Christmas Cards</span></strong><em><br />
Did your family send cards? Did your family display the ones they received? Do you still send Christmas cards? Do you have any cards from your ancestors?</em></p>
<p>Written for the <a href="http://www.geneabloggers.com/preview-advent-calendar-christmas-memories/" target="_blank">2009 Advent Calendar of  Christmas Memories</a><em><br />
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<p>As I recall, we did send Christmas cards.  The one that survives is one my mom sent out the year (1967)  we moved into the house they lived in until her death in 1998.  Always the efficient one, she used the opportunity to let her Christmas card list know about our new address.  I found this one in my grandmother&#8217;s picture box&#8211;her mother.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-large wp-image-1125 aligncenter" style="border: 2px solid black;" title="card1" src="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/card1-184x300.jpg" alt="card1" width="286" height="462" /></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1126" style="border: 2px solid black;" title="card2" src="http://allmyancestors.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/card2-658x1023.jpg" alt="card2" width="285" height="422" /></p>
<p>This is the only time I know of that my folks used cards printed with their name.  And evidently my South Dakota grandparents were coming south for Christmas.  About this time they started spending winters in Texas and Oklahoma with my folks and with my aunt and uncle who lived in Oklahoma.  Avoiding South Dakota winters only made good sense as they got a little older.  Or maybe we were traveling up to visit them&#8211;I loved having Christmas in South Dakota because we could almost always be assured of having a white Christmas.</p>
<p>At home, when we displayed cards, we usually just set them under the tree or on another flat surface.  I don&#8217;t remember taping them up or hanging them.  But I do remember going through them and enjoying reading what friends had written.</p>
<p>A few years ago, one the librarians I worked with had a collection of Christmas cards from one of her aunts.  She said she didn&#8217;t know anyone else who would appreciate them so she gave them to me.  What a treasure.  They are from the 1910s and 1920s&#8211;they are wonderful.  They remind me a little bit of <em>New Yorker</em> cartoons.  I&#8217;ve enjoyed looking at these through the years and have tried to think of ways to use them.  I wish I could find them for this post&#8211;but they aren&#8217;t in any of the 6 boxes of Christmas stuff that&#8217;s migrated in from the garage.</p>
<p>Through the years, I&#8217;ve sent cards, I&#8221;ve made and sent cards, I&#8217;ve sent Christmas newsletters, and I&#8217;ve not sent cards.  I&#8217;m always happier with myself when I make the effort but sometimes it just isn&#8217;t possible.  And, by the way, I vote FOR newsletters&#8211;I love them!</p>
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		<title>Advent Calendar:  Ornaments</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 02:30:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[December 3 &#8211; Christmas Tree Ornaments Did your family have heirloom or cherished ornaments? Did you ever string popcorn and cranberries? Did your family or ancestors make Christmas ornaments? (Note: this post can be used for Treasure Chest Thursday as well) So I&#8217;m late joining this exercise, but maybe it will serve the purpose of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">December 3 &#8211; Christmas Tree Ornaments</span></strong><br />
Did your family have heirloom or cherished ornaments? Did you ever string popcorn and cranberries? Did your family or ancestors make Christmas ornaments?<br />
(Note: this post can be used for Treasure Chest Thursday as well)</p>
<p>So I&#8217;m late joining this exercise, but maybe it will serve the purpose of getting me started writing again.  And help take me away from the frantic-ness that is too often part of these holidays.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love to say we have some heirloom or cherished ornaments.  I think we have some that are on their way to cherished status, but not a lot.  A few years ago, I purchased some retro ornament that reminded me of those smaller glass ornaments of my childhood (1950s)&#8211;there are lots of blues and purples and stripes and some sort of rough white glitter &#8220;snow.&#8221;  They aren&#8217;t circular like today&#8217;s bulbs&#8211;I&#8217;ve enjoyed putting them among our other ornaments the past few years.</p>
<p>My favorite ornament that I kept for many many years was a Santa Claus head I made as a first grader.  We were assigned to make or bring an ornament for our classroom tree.  As I recall, Mrs. Price put up some sort of painted twiggy looking tree at the back of the classroom on the counter next to the sink&#8211;as I recall, it got decorated for each season so it wasn&#8217;t a true Christmas tree in the sense that it was not evergreen.</p>
<p>To make my ornament, my mom blew out an egg and I drew on the face.  He was a little cross-eyed as I recall.   Mom helped me further by sewing a red hat&#8211;I remember we had a time making it big enough to fit over the egg&#8211;and I glued on some cotton for the white fur.  I loved putting this ornament on the tree for years&#8211;first at my parents&#8217; home and then on my own tree.  However, egg-head Santa suffered a crushing blow&#8211;someone stepped on him.  I don&#8217;t even remember who now but I do remember it was a very sad day when I had to do away with my Santa.  I think his scruffy little red hat still fills one of the corners of the Christmas storage boxes.</p>
<p>But we do have another ornament that is taking on the &#8220;heirloom&#8221; mantle&#8211;it is already cherished.  Our oldest son made an ornament one year out of an even more unlikely household item than an egg&#8211;a toilet paper roll.  The ornament represents a man dressed as in Biblical times&#8211;or a young child&#8217;s idea of what that would be, anyway.   Construction paper was used to make a red undergarment with a blue outer robe.  Now-raveling burlap forms the headdress&#8211;glued over the top and partway down the back&#8211;and the face matches the artwork of my 1st grade Santa&#8211;but this one has a very dark beard colored on.  It&#8217;s just so primitive and representative of my son at that young age&#8211;I love it and love to tuck it into the tree each year.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t remember ever stringing cranberries or popcorn, but one year I did decorate our family tree in the tradition of what I&#8217;d read and learned about our Germans from Russia ancestors.  Here in Oklahoma City, there is always a display of trees decorated by various groups who want to participate.  Persons can tour the display and the event earns money for a local charity.  The <a href="http://www.ahsgr.org/central_oklahoma_chapter.htm" target="_blank">local Germans from Russia</a> chapter had a beautiful tree up and it made me think about my own ancestors.   My family were Mennonites so I can imagine their choice of decorations as being practical.  I put unshelled walnuts and apples and candles on my tree that year.  I did spray paint the walnuts with gold paint, and the apples were not &#8220;real&#8221; fruit&#8211;the were smaller shiny apple ornaments, and my candles were lights.  It was beautiful to me but I remember my sons being a little puzzled.  It took me back to the year my mom &#8220;flocked&#8221; (with that spray snow that was available and a staple of 1950&#8242;s Christmases) a tumbleweed for our Christmas tree in the Texas panhandle.  Looking back on it, it seems appropriate but I really was embarrassed and thought it was weird at the time.</p>
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		<title>Tombstone Tuesday</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 06:21:35 +0000</pubDate>
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<p style="text-align: center;">near Perryton in Ochiltree County, Texas</p>
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